Gay Marriage

In today's post-September 11th society that is filled with "weapons of mass destruction," the hottest topic in the news is that of same sex marriage. Headlines opposing and supporting are covering all newspapers, news stations and even talk shows. The recent uproar in Massachusetts and San Francisco has added more fuel to the fire. Everyone is taking sides and expressing their opinions any way they can. This has also been a major topic in the presidential campaigns.

Traditionally in this country, marriage has been defined as a religious & legal commitment between a man and woman, as well as the ultimate expression of love. Homosexual relationships are increasingly gaining acceptance in this country; however, these couples have not been permitted to marry. Some states have considered a new form of commitment called a "civil union", which essentially is marriage without using the word "marriage". Many politicians have said they are against gay marriage but think it should be left up to the states to decide. However, the "full faith and credit" clause of the Constitution says that if one state makes a law, other states must recognize it.

Real Marriage Society most often defines marriage as a union between two people in which there is love, fidelity, trust, and honor present. Therefore gay marriages are by society's definition, a "real" marriage. So, why is it such a controversial topic to discuss? There are many reasons why the gay community has not been recognized as a normal part of society. Most of them are surrounded by religious controversy. The definition of marriage is, "to join as husband and wife; to give or take in marriage."

Most people in the United States enjoy many of the same freedoms. These freedoms allow them to do basically whatever they want with their lives as well as giving them the legal recognition and protection of marriage. Over the years our country has experienced several dilemmas dealing with the freedom