Honky Book Review
Essay by 24 • November 30, 2010 • 901 Words (4 Pages) • 1,366 Views
Growing up in the projects in hard enough as it is, but throw in the fact that you are a white kid, and you have an idea of what Dalton Conley has had to grow up with. Now a successful sociologist, Dalton Conley explains in his book, the trials and tribulations he had to face in order to survive in the projects and his battle with race.
Conley had more exposure to the idea of race than most children, growing up one of the only white kids in New York public housing projects populated by Black and Puerto Rican families. His parents were artists, whose low income and desire to break societal molds led them to apply for housing in the then fairly new projects. As most children are, Conley was at first fairly oblivious to race, a fact exhibited when, as he relates in one of several telling anecdotes, he kidnapped a black baby to be his sister, never realizing the difference in their skin color.
For some years he lived a double life, struggling to fit in both with the neighborhood kids and with his high level of social classmates. These subtle descriptions gives the reader an idea of how awkward he felt growing up in a community where it was not normal for a person of his nature to grow up in. One of the stronger aspects of Honky is how Conley describes the ways in which he gained his gradual awareness of class and ethnic privilege in American society.
One time, after a child molester was caught castrating boys in the bathroom of his first school near the projects, Conley's mother was able to draw on the connections of an artist friend and enroll him in a Greenwich Village school using a fake address. At that school, he was able to fit in, however, with kids whose parents lived in the largely white worlds of academia and anti-nuclear rallies. When a stray bullet paralyzed his best friend Jerome, his family was able to move to a federally subsidized apartment in a better part of town, because they could prove they were "artists" rather than just normal low-income people. When his sister Alexandra got involved with drugs, she was able to escape unscathed and go on to college, while a non-white friend ended up serving 25 years in prison after a drug raid.
These references show that just because a person may not seem to fit in a certain environment, or are just to poor to do anything about it, doesn't mean they have to settle with this concept. Triumphing over obstacles such as race and economic position are some of the ideas the author is able to throw out and try to inspire people. Don't settle with something mediocre, when a person is capable of so much more. This is a theme that seems to sustain through out the entire book.
It almost seems as though the author is glad to have had to grow up in such diverse conditions. People may read this book and think, "the guy really had it rough", but if anything he seems to have benefited from it. Through his experiences, Conley is able to take with him, a small but vital idea of unity. If he was able to adapt and coexist
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