Love
Essay by 24 • May 4, 2011 • 496 Words (2 Pages) • 1,076 Views
Love is affection. Love is sacrifice. Love is compromise. Love is faith. Love is believable and unbelievable. Love is destiny. Love is strength. Love is trust. Love is a desire with lust. Love is the world. Yeah, exactly what is love?
Love is all about showing ineffable feelings, affections, and solicitude toward a person whom you care about. It can also be expressed in many ways. Love has so many definitions and it is define differently to others in their own opinions.
As in the Merriam-Webster's online dictionary would state the meaning as
"Strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties, or attraction based on sexual desire, affection, and tenderness felt by lovers or affection based on
Why do we fall in love? What is the passion? There are many reasons why we fall in love. The first and most important is that love is a fact of life. As well as physical attraction, most people are drawn to someone who shares the same interests, and personal qualities that they recognize and admire. But what about the chemistry, about that inexplicable feeling of wholeness people have when they are with each other? Or that instinctive sense of knowing man and woman are right for each other? This is what Henry Dicks, a guru in relationship psychotherapy, called the 'Unconscious Fit'.
All of us carry with us a psychological blueprint. That blueprint holds details about our life experiences and the marks they have left. It contains information that we often haven't acknowledged to ourselves about our fears and anxieties, our desires and dreams, our coping mechanisms and our defenses. Each of us has an unconscious capacity to scan each other's blueprint. The people we are most attracted to, are those who have blueprints that complement or fit with ours. We are looking for similarities of experience but more
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