Relationships

Women always complain that "he just doesn't understand..." Men always complain, "I don't understand why she isn't just straight up with me." It's true. Men can not read between the lines, I repeat...they can NOT read between the lines. Now that that's clear, we must resolve such a situation. When women say this, in their minds it's common sense. If the woman is in a bad mood, don't bring up unnecessary arguments....common sense, no? If the woman sits there and answers, "Nothing's wrong ok?"....something is definitely wrong...common sense, no? I mean for crying out loud, if the woman looks mad, she's mad....common sense, no? No. Especially in the eyes of men. They're creatures of abnormally low functions of something simple called 'sense.' They are oblivious to what we think is obvious. We have to remember....they're tunnel visioned. As difficult and frustrating as that is, it's something we can not beat.

Men : Come on now. You can NOT be as inconsiderate and senseless as you act sometimes. Just because she says everything's okay doesn't necessarily mean it is all the time. Why can't we be more straight up? Because we're not heartless beings. If something is frustrating us to the point where we have to act like it's okay.....it's pretty big. If we came out and just told you what it was that you did wrong in our eyes, we'd be looked upon as overreacting or being closed-minded. It's a lose-lose situation because what we think is important, you don't.

A primary example.....I go into your room and we're chillin and I notice that your blanket has you and your ex's name engraved on the corner. WTH?!?! As upsetting as that is, I'll try my best to cover up my frustration. I jokingly mention it later on and his reply, "It's just a blanket." Come on!! Are you KIDDING me?!? It's of complete sentimental value and you sit there expecting me to be okay with that. Wow, that's just expecting too much. A woman with that big of a heart deserves a standing ovation (oh I see all the single women right now thinking, "I wouldn't care....after all, it's just a blanket".....oh how I used to think like thee). Not quite so pretty when you experience it. Men, you have to understand that the only reason why she'd be so