You Can’t Stop People from Passing Judgment. but They Can’t Build Your Prison

                 “You can’t stop people from passing judgment. But they can’t build your prison.”    

                  Judgment is just a recipe for suffering but can inspire and motivate a person. It will help us notice the missing pieces in ourselves. I know how painful feeling judged can be and how negatively it affects but if we learn to open our hearts, anyone, including the people who drive us crazy, can be our teacher.

                   I find myself feeling judged by the people around me. That I don’t deserve my achievements and there are a lot of people who worked harder than I did. I must make a choice to take a chance or else nothing will change. I worked hard to achieve my goals and set my priorities to prove to myself that I deserve it.  

Then I realized that judgments might be a good thing because it can turn you into a better person. After that I found out that what I simply feel was right but the good thing is not all of the people around me think that way, most of them believe and support me.

                      Forget what other people say because only God can judge you. You should focus on what matters for your own growth, success, and happiness.  To achieve your goals you need to put 50 percent trust in yourself and 50 percent faith in God.  If you never chase your dream, you will never catch it. Believe in yourself that you can do it.  Turn other people’s negative thoughts into positive.  Let their word lift you up and don’t let them bring you down. Accept the challenge and win the game. Trust in God for whatever will be, will be. If it is yours, it’s yours. If not, God have greater plans for you. Sometimes life doesn't give you something you want, not because you don't deserve it, but because you deserve more.