Do's and Dont's in Communicating online

DO’S AND DONT’S IN COMMUNICATING ONLINE

• DO’S

• Positive Thinking – While you’re communicating online with your friends or loved ones you must be a positive thinker. Share positive thoughts instead of negative. I’m not a positive thinker either, but I always tried to be positive all of the time. Afraid of getting ruined the vibe.

• Be kind – Every person or people in the world have a different perspective or aspect in life. What you about to tell on him/her that might hurt them will have a big impact in their lives later on. You know it’s not expensive to be kind of other people that you’re talking to online. If it is a stranger, friend or just some sort of person that has a crush on you for a long time. I believe that people should treat nicely in a way that they wanted to. It’s not that hard to start with.

•  Nurture your FAITH – Share some words of God on your friends online. Help yourself, friends, relatives, and family to sync with the will of God and to our life. First of all, without Him we were not being able to communicate online around the world.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             

• DONT’S

• Nudity – Most of the teenagers nowadays, are enganging in sending nude photos online. That’s the way they’re capable of communicating online with someone that they already or barely knew. They feel like they gain something by doing it, which is they don’t have. And, they were able to “fit in” in the modern society. But, for me I don’t approved any kind of that idea. I am a 90’s kid, and well raised by my loving family. If I were to them, I would never ever send unappropriate photos. That will affect my image if someone would leaked it to the public. It would be a lot of shame to you and your family. Always think before you click.

• Rants – Don’t argue and post it on social media. I’ve seen some of my friends on social media like facebook, twitter, etc. and keep on ranting to someone that they hate. It’s not a good thing to pick a fight, especially online. Because people might misjudge you. They will start to think that you have an attitude problem. You’re not probably defining him/her, you’re defining your own true self.

• Harrassment – Do you ever insult people online? Do you send offensive messages? Do you engage in name-calling? If yes, you better stop it. What if they’re doing the same thing you do? How will you feel about it? I, myself, usually got some messages online saying that “Mona, you’re too skinny.” “Mona, eat a lot of food. Tatlong ubo ka na lang. Ha-ha.” And, I find it offensive and annoying. It’s not funny. But, this is real life. People will judge you. Online or offline. You just have to deal with that w/ grace. I guess (sighed) PS: I don’t care whatever they say to me, I love myself and I’m proud of it. ☺